Friday, August 12, 2011

IDGAF

What is with people who just because something happens or something has happened that you don't understand you automatically put 'your take' on it.   You automatically make statements that are just that...statement although made without fact.  So you see something that was written and you automatically group it into something that it isn't at all because you don't know what it's about.

What happened to being maybe a bit considerate and maybe just maybe this person is having some PERSONAL issue's that have made them make a bold statement of IDGAF.  Just because you see this statement on a blog doesn't mean that everything has to be SIM related or should I say, 'Sim community' related.

I started this blog just so I could vent, talk, rave or laugh at things I just felt may not be appropriate to post on Cstyles. I NEEDED this blog because something did happen to me Sim related that I just felt I couldn't fully express on Cstyles.  I did this also to protect others who were not involved in what had upset me and they were still friends with the people who had upset me. I didn't want anyone to feel as if they had to choose sides.
But I also needed/wanted this blog to just be able to release, and to be able to meet people on more neutral ground than them viewing me as 'The Administrator' and just see me as Cece.

Not everybody is going to get along and at times you come across someone who is friends with your enemies...but that doesn't mean you have to make your friend...enemies of your enemy does it?  Of course not!

Let's not be quick to judge someone because you see something that you clearly have NO clue what it means to the person who wrote it.
Let's respect that it's obvious this person is going through some things and basically needed a place to scream.

All caps is considered 'screaming' in writing...caps with bold text...I considered to be seriously screaming, perhaps yelling at the top of their lungs but have no other way to do this other than writing it down.

I'm not going to type out in bold letters something like IT SUCKS and not have a reason behind it.  But  maybe I don't want to discuss this reason right now, if ever...I just needed some place to SCREAM to help me release what is bothering me.

As you can tell, this blog is brand new, not much written yet but hopefully plans to update it on a frequent basis.  I attached it to Cstyles for ease in being to just 'reach' right over and update without the hassle of searching here and there for this or that blog or forum.

What about the title of this blog...?  Does 'Same shit, New Day' pertain strictly to my Sim life or could it be possible that it might pertain to my personal life...or better yet...maybe both sectors of my life?

Don't assume that you can 'read between my lines' of my writing because more than likely you will be so far off track that you will have to wait for the next train.

Think about people's thoughts and feelings before you express how you think or feel about them. How do you feel when someone speaks a false or assumes something totally off base with you.  Don't you wish you could almost literally call everyone to attention and explain 'the truth'.
Or maybe you are so thick skinned that obvious taunts and jabs and non truths regarding you have absolutely no affect on you...but does this mean that everyone else is made up this exact way also? Does it mean you are wrong just because you can handle something totally different than other people do?  Of course not!

Just don't hold it against others who skin is not as thick as yours and they like it that way.  Maybe they like having the ability to 'feel' pain and have emotions.  Perhaps they also like that being so 'non thick skinned' helps them relate to other peoples sensitivity and also not make them quick to NOT think of others before they speak out on a subject.

Just like my blog title...same shit, new day...go figure....
Sometimes one of these...
                          ...is just not enough!

Monday, August 8, 2011

Copycatting is just haters with no mind of their own!

   It kills me that some people just don't know when to quit trying to imitate and copycat!!  Use your own mind and your own creativity! I'm so tired of seeing others trying to steal others creativity and claim it as their own. Get real...get your OWN and stop trying to make yourself somebody else because YOU WILL NEVER BE THEM!!!


DEAL WITH IT!

It's Monday...not so bad a thing this time around...I think...

Oh well...another weekend flew by....but at least this one was not a totally 'fly by' or waste!  I got to spend some time with my little 4 year old God daughter and we had  a blast! It feels so good sometimes to be able to drop down to their little level and just act a fool! Not too much of a fool...remember...they are very very impressionable at that age, but enough to make them giggle is all you need.

I am still amazed at how 'grown' these little boogers are!  We were at the dining table and just talking about different things and I asked her how her grandmother was doing and asked her if she got to see her much.  Not her maternal grandmother, her paternal grandmother and this little thing looks up from her dinner plate, rolled her little eyes and said in a somewhat exasperated tone..."I really don't want to talk about it."  What?!?  Are you kidding me, I just had a child, transform into an adult mind and speak to me like we were on an adult to adult conversation level!! Lol!!

So being observant and not wanting to step on her little toes, after laughing hysterically from her remark...I respected her wishes and dropped the subject...although I couldn't help but still giggle from time to time whenever I thought about it.

Yep...it's been a pretty good weekend this time around, now...let's just pray that the week brings just as much promise!!

Be sure to check out Cstyles Exclusive August creations...totally awesome and more than worth the download!! Trust me...my cc folder is screaming at me since we've acquired so many talented, I mean truly talented creators to our forum. I'm loving every minute of it!!!!