A Wolf In Sheep's Clothing...

Have you ever looked back on your life and wish somehow someone had never entered it?  I mean...NOW you can see that they were/are, NO good nothings but then, boy they pulled the wool over your eyes!  I mean...what is it about people who just totally walk around with a serious cloak of dishonesty surrounding them yet we can't see it?  Some of those people we can easily just toss over our shoulder and keep moving forward, but sometimes you have someone who came into your life like gangbusters and then left just as hard stomping all over you.

I'd rather know that this/these devious devilish people are who they are from the start and not later down the road. I rather others stop being afraid to let you know that this 'new' person in your life may not have your best interest at heart. I've seen times when someone said, after the hurt and tears...'oh...I so wanted to tell you how they were but I was scared to get in the middle'. What?! So you'd rather just stand by and wait for them to hurt me like you KNOW that they are going too?  Then I have to wonder...'what kind of friend are you?'

A true friend would tell me the moment they suspected that this person who has entered into my space, my life, that something may not be as it seems.  A true friend would at least warn you to stay on your toes around this person. A true friend doesn't stand by and wait for the hurt and THEN think they are being a true and helpful friend by coming forward after the fact.

I'd rather someone be a little mad at me because I forewarned them than to wait and have to console them later because I possibly could have averted or even prevented the pain. Maybe this bad person won't do a thing to them, but still...if YOU know they are un-trusthworthy and have a terrible history...and terrible track record for lies, deceit and hurt...I'd still feel better making you aware of this.

If you are my true friend as I am yours...you will know that I'm not saying anything to be mean or cause trouble; you will know that I'm saying this to help you...not hurt you.  I'm trying to help you put on your armor and shield BEFORE the dragon attacks...better to be safe than sorry.

IDGAF

What is with people who just because something happens or something has happened that you don't understand you automatically put 'your take' on it.   You automatically make statements that are just that...statement although made without fact.  So you see something that was written and you automatically group it into something that it isn't at all because you don't know what it's about.

What happened to being maybe a bit considerate and maybe just maybe this person is having some PERSONAL issue's that have made them make a bold statement of IDGAF.  Just because you see this statement on a blog doesn't mean that everything has to be SIM related or should I say, 'Sim community' related.

I started this blog just so I could vent, talk, rave or laugh at things I just felt may not be appropriate to post on Cstyles. I NEEDED this blog because something did happen to me Sim related that I just felt I couldn't fully express on Cstyles.  I did this also to protect others who were not involved in what had upset me and they were still friends with the people who had upset me. I didn't want anyone to feel as if they had to choose sides.
But I also needed/wanted this blog to just be able to release, and to be able to meet people on more neutral ground than them viewing me as 'The Administrator' and just see me as Cece.

Not everybody is going to get along and at times you come across someone who is friends with your enemies...but that doesn't mean you have to make your friend...enemies of your enemy does it?  Of course not!

Let's not be quick to judge someone because you see something that you clearly have NO clue what it means to the person who wrote it.
Let's respect that it's obvious this person is going through some things and basically needed a place to scream.

All caps is considered 'screaming' in writing...caps with bold text...I considered to be seriously screaming, perhaps yelling at the top of their lungs but have no other way to do this other than writing it down.

I'm not going to type out in bold letters something like IT SUCKS and not have a reason behind it.  But  maybe I don't want to discuss this reason right now, if ever...I just needed some place to SCREAM to help me release what is bothering me.

As you can tell, this blog is brand new, not much written yet but hopefully plans to update it on a frequent basis.  I attached it to Cstyles for ease in being to just 'reach' right over and update without the hassle of searching here and there for this or that blog or forum.

What about the title of this blog...?  Does 'Same shit, New Day' pertain strictly to my Sim life or could it be possible that it might pertain to my personal life...or better yet...maybe both sectors of my life?

Don't assume that you can 'read between my lines' of my writing because more than likely you will be so far off track that you will have to wait for the next train.

Think about people's thoughts and feelings before you express how you think or feel about them. How do you feel when someone speaks a false or assumes something totally off base with you.  Don't you wish you could almost literally call everyone to attention and explain 'the truth'.
Or maybe you are so thick skinned that obvious taunts and jabs and non truths regarding you have absolutely no affect on you...but does this mean that everyone else is made up this exact way also? Does it mean you are wrong just because you can handle something totally different than other people do?  Of course not!

Just don't hold it against others who skin is not as thick as yours and they like it that way.  Maybe they like having the ability to 'feel' pain and have emotions.  Perhaps they also like that being so 'non thick skinned' helps them relate to other peoples sensitivity and also not make them quick to NOT think of others before they speak out on a subject.

Just like my blog title...same shit, new day...go figure....

Sometimes one of these...
                          ...is just not enough!

Copycatting is just haters with no mind of their own!

   It kills me that some people just don't know when to quit trying to imitate and copycat!!  Use your own mind and your own creativity! I'm so tired of seeing others trying to steal others creativity and claim it as their own. Get real...get your OWN and stop trying to make yourself somebody else because YOU WILL NEVER BE THEM!!!

DEAL WITH IT!

It's Monday...not so bad a thing this time around...I think...

Oh well...another weekend flew by....but at least this one was not a totally 'fly by' or waste!  I got to spend some time with my little 4 year old God daughter and we had  a blast! It feels so good sometimes to be able to drop down to their little level and just act a fool! Not too much of a fool...remember...they are very very impressionable at that age, but enough to make them giggle is all you need.

I am still amazed at how 'grown' these little boogers are!  We were at the dining table and just talking about different things and I asked her how her grandmother was doing and asked her if she got to see her much.  Not her maternal grandmother, her paternal grandmother and this little thing looks up from her dinner plate, rolled her little eyes and said in a somewhat exasperated tone..."I really don't want to talk about it."  What?!?  Are you kidding me, I just had a child, transform into an adult mind and speak to me like we were on an adult to adult conversation level!! Lol!!

So being observant and not wanting to step on her little toes, after laughing hysterically from her remark...I respected her wishes and dropped the subject...although I couldn't help but still giggle from time to time whenever I thought about it.

Yep...it's been a pretty good weekend this time around, now...let's just pray that the week brings just as much promise!!

Be sure to check out Cstyles Exclusive August creations...totally awesome and more than worth the download!! Trust me...my cc folder is screaming at me since we've acquired so many talented, I mean truly talented creators to our forum. I'm loving every minute of it!!!!

Finally got Ian uploaded!!

Finally!! I got a new Sim off and uploaded!  I feel like this week so far has speed by...maybe my fault since I fussed so much about the weekend flying by.  Note to self....be more careful what I say out loud or write down...seems to be some haters in the day's of the weeks!! Lol!!

Of course Ian can only be downloaded @ Cstyles!  I'm so happyz!! Who knows...I might get another one out this weekend...don't know yet...I am babysitting tonight and it depends on how pooped I am.  I have a big night planned for my little God Daughter and I.  GIRLS NIGHT!! Mani/pedi, making cookies, eating cookies (yummy) with a little icecream and MOVIES!! I'm looking forward to it!

It's Monday again...already?!

So it's Monday already AGAIN...?!  Where did the weekend go?  I feel as if I've been ambushed...robbed...those two precious day's called...'weekend'...have cruelly been stolen from me!  Okay...maybe I exaggerate a tad...but I swear it does seem as if it still should be let's say...Saturday morning!

Yep...Saturday morning...no worries...no work....no endless phone calls from solicitors trying to sell me some junk I don't need nor want, no scams telling me that I've won tons of money from some dead distant relative I've never met who resided in Africa!  Nope...Good ol' Saturday.

I'm too old for Saturday morning cartoons...nah...outgrew that years ago, and I really don't have to rush up out of bed to do laundry or housework because I live alone and...'who cares'!?  Who cares if I need to run the vacuum cleaner and dust the furniture? Who cares if the kitchen floor could use a good old on my knee's kind of scrub or my oven needs cleaning?  Who cares if I truly need to clean all the mirrors in each bathroom?

No one...or at least they shouldn't...if they aren't paying my rent then you have NO right to care! I don't care and I pay the rent!  I'm NOT living in filth mind you...could never tolerate that...no...wasn't raised that way.  But I've learned that it isn't a necessity to race up bright and early...do ton's of housework...only at the end of the day sit back, and although happy that I accomplished something...feeling a little irritated because was it really needed to do this massive amount of housework for myself?

Nope..I've learned to slow down and take it one day at a time...but back to the problem...who stole my weekend from me so I could decide NOT to do all that insane and inane housework?

Should I file charges?  Call the FBI or CIA...who stole those two glorious days from me and left not a hint behind?

Or should I just let it go and wait until the next weekend and pray the weekend thieves won't steal it away from me...

Hot enough for ya?!

Is it hot enough for everyone?!  I'm sooo glad to be back indoors...in my nice air conditioned apartment and not sweltering outside like I was earlier.  Good heavens I make one stop...stayed for possibly 2 hours...give or take an hour...and by the time we went back to the car we almost cooked waiting on the air to finally cool us off!  And this is a brand new car mind you...fantastic air conditioning system...yet we slow baked waiting to finally feel the air hit us.  The best thing was opening up my front door and feeling that blast of cool air rush towards me.

Ah...inside...air conditioner...cold glass of tea by my side...potato chips...and stupid stuff playing on the television...life is good!! Lol!